Moral Opposition Is Not the Same as Bullying or Hating

. . . there is a profound difference between moral objection to the behavior of homosexuality and the physical intimidation or abuse of those tempted by same-sex attraction. Warning against and opposing the societal embrace of certain sexual behaviors is not bullying.

If it is, Ms. Behar, I look forward to your upcoming show in which you will chastise First Lady Michelle Obama for being a willing accomplice of the brutal bullying of obese children. After all, the most bullied group of young people in our country remains the overweight children. Mrs. Obama’s warning against the societal embrace of unhealthy eating habits is only ostracizing and stigmatizing the fat kids, thus inviting more bullying. And her opposition to overeating couldn’t be born out of love and concern for those kids’ well being, could it, Ms. Behar?

‘The View’ of Incoherence by Peter Heck

Great analogy. I am so tired of people being called “haters” (and worse) whenever they say anything in opposition to homosexual behavior. I believe that homosexual behavior is harmful to society, to the family, and to the person who chooses, yes, chooses, to engage in such behavior. I don’t believe that being attracted to a person of your same sex is a sin or is morally repugnant. I do believe that acting on that attraction is wrong and harmful. I am no more hateful for expressing that opinion than I am for saying that overeating is wrong and harmful whenever I engage in that behavior, a choice I make too often and repent of frequently.

Saturday Review of Books: November 20, 2010

“Whatever sanity I had was thanks to writers, to books that either helped me forget my troubles or helped me understand them.”~Susan Richards, Chosen by a Horse

If you’re not familiar with and linking to and perusing the Saturday Review of Books here at Semicolon, you’re missing out. Here’s how it usually works. Find a review on your blog posted sometime during the previous week of a book you were reading or a book you’ve read. The review doesn’t have to be a formal sort of thing. You can just write your thoughts on a particular book, a few ideas inspired by reading the book, your evaluation, quotations, whatever.

Then on Saturday, you post a link here at Semicolon in Mr. Linky to the specific post where you’ve written your book review. Don’t link to your main blog page because this kind of link makes it hard to find the book review, especially when people drop in later after you’ve added new content to your blog. In parentheses after your name, add the title of the book you’re reviewing. This addition will help people to find the reviews they’re most interested in reading.

After linking to your own reviews, you can spend as long as you want reading the reviews of other bloggers for the week and adding to your wishlist of books to read. That’s how my own TBR list has become completely unmanageable and the reason I can’t join any reading challenges. I have my own personal challenge that never ends.

Lost in Middle Earth

A friend of mine, S., wrote these words in her Facebook status a few days ago:

Ever since i started reading The Lord of the Rings I don’t want to work. I don’t want to cook. I don’t want to fold laundry. I don’t want to run. I don’t want to hang out. I don’t want to do my bible study. Don’t want to talk, don’t want phone calls, don’t get the mail(well I never did that actually) What’s the deal Tolkien?! I like your world better sometimes;-)

I’m jealous. I wish I could get lost in Middle Earth for the first time again. In fact, I wrote a poem, back in the day when I thought I could write poetry, about the fascination of Tolkien’s Middle Earth:

She doesn’t hear the blur of noise
That marks our busy world—
Rhythm of footsteps in the hall,
Insistent radio two doors down,
Rushing of the cars outside,
Clatter of pans in the kitchen sink.
Her ears are tuned to other sounds:
To elvish songs and goblin shrieks,
Hobbit voices, horns and swords,
She’s lost in Middle Earth.

What book(s) do you wish you could read again for the first time?

Fostering Understanding

Two of the books nominated for the Cybils Middle Grade Fiction award focus on foster children and their adjustment to living in a family not their own.

In Touch Blue by Cynthia Lord, eleven year old Tess Brooks and her five year old sister Libby are excited about welcoming a foster brother into their family’s life on a small island off the coast of Maine. (Don’t you just love that cover with the Monopoly pieces against the blue Maine-ish background?) As her family prepares to welcome Aaron, their new foster child, Tess says,

“I’ve never met a foster child before. But I’ve read books about them. There’s Gilly in The Great Gilly Hopkins, Bud in Bud, Not Buddy, and Anne Shirley in Anne of Green Gables. I hope Aaron’s the most like Anne: full of stories and eager to meet us. Of course, he won’t be exactly like Anne, because he’s not eleven years old.
Or a girl.
Or Canadian.”

It turns out that Aaron isn’t much like any of those kids in the books. He’s a thirteen year old trumpet player who still misses the mom who deserted him and still hopes to be reunited with her. Tess must deal with her disappointment and with her inability to control events as she tries to find a way to help Aaron become part of the family and comfortable with island life.

Dream of Night by Heather Henson reads at first like just another horse book, and I’m not too fond of horse books. However, it’s really about abuse and adoption and learning to trust. Shiloh, a twelve year old foster child and Dream of Night, a retired Thoroughbred racehorse who’s been abused and neglected by his owner, both come to live with Jess DiLima, a middle aged rescuer of both horses and children who’s not sure she still has the strength and energy to foster yet another child and a nearly starved horse. Shiloh and Dream of Night, of course, have a lot in common; both have been abused and both have trust issues. And eventually the horse and the child bond, but the inevitable friendship that grows between is not forced or sentimental. I’m not sure how, but author Heather Henson takes a formula plot and makes it seem real and emotionally engaging.

“Shiloh looks up at the black horse. He’s so big. She doesn’t understand how he got his scars. How he would let anyone hurt him like that. With his hooves and his screaming and his legs kicking out. It makes her angry. She can’t explain it, but she’s angry at the black horse for letting himself get those scars. She turns abruptly away. She walks toward the house. Without looking back.
If she were big, like Night, if she were big and fierce and strong, she would never let anyone near. She would never let anyone touch her ever again.”

Told from three different points of view, that of Shiloh, of Jess, and of the horse, Dream of Night, the novel’s strength is it’s characterization. I felt the hardness and fear in Shiloh and in Dream, and I understood Jess’s apprehensiveness about her ability to get through and earn the trust of either the girl or the horse. In fact, as I compared the two books, Touch Blue and Dream of Night, I thought that maybe Touch Blue could have benefitted from a change in viewpoint. Tess talks a little too much and understands too little, and I could have used some more insight into what Aaron was thinking and feeling.

But that’s really a small complaint. Both books give insight into the experience of foster children and into the feelings and difficulties of those who do the fostering. Both certainly deserve to be placed on the list alongside The Great Gilly Hopkins, Bud, Not Buddy and Anne of Green Gables as books for children who want to understand foster children and foster families.

Other titles about foster children and adoption:
The Higher Power of Lucky by Susan Patron. Semicolon review here.
The Road to Paris by Nikki Grimes. Semicolon review here.
The Great Gilly Hopkins by Katherine Paterson. I read this book a l-o-n-g time ago. As I remember it, it’s about a wise-cracking foster kid and the foster mom who loves her anyway.
Homecoming and Dicey’s Song by Cynthia Voigt. These two books are about homelessness and being abandoned by a parent who can’t cope, and about four resilient children who bring as much to their new home with their grandmther as she gives them.
Heat by Mike Lupica. I read this baseball-themed book for the Cybil Awards, and I really liked it. It’s bout two boys, brothers, who’ve lost both parents, and are trying NOT to get caught up into the foster care system. Semicolon review here.
Alabama Moon by Watt Key. A boy raised in the wilderness by a survivalist father runs away from a foster care facility. Semicolon review here.
Bud, Not Buddy by Christopher Paul Curtis. I’ve got to read this Newbery Award book soon. It’s about “Bud–“not Buddy”–Caldwell, an orphan on the run from abusive foster homes and Hoovervilles in 1930s Michigan,” according to Amazon.
The Pinballs by Betsy Byars. Three children in a foster home grow and learn to care about each other.
The Orphan Train series by Joan Lowery Nixon.
In The Face of Danger (Orphan Train Adventures)
A Place to Belong (Orphan Train Adventures)
A Dangerous Promise (Orphan Train Adventures)
A Family Apart (Orphan Train Adventures)
Keeping Secrets (Orphan Train Adventures)
Where the River Begins by Patricia St. John.
Pictures of Hollis Woods by Patricia Reilly Giff.
Gossamer by Lois Lowry. Semicolon review here.
The Family Under the Bridge by Natalie Carlson Savage. This title is written for younger children, and it’s not as contemporary as the other books on this list, but definitely worthwhile. It’s the story of three children and their mother who must live under a bridge in Paris after they’re evicted from their apartment. It’s also about the old tramp who becomes their adoptive grandfather in spite of his determination not to get involved with any “little birds.” (children who steal your heart)

More book suggestions on this same topic at Fuse 8.

Can you suggest any other children’s titles that have to do with foster children and adoption?

Cybils in Brief

Here’s a brief note on several of Cybils Middle Grade Fiction nominees that I’ve read this week:

The Fantastic Secret of Owen Jester by Barbara O’Connor. Owen and his friends Travis and Stumpy reminded me for some reason of the Little Rascals, and they even have a pesky girl next door named Viola. When Owen and company find something very special next to the train tracks, Viola is the only one who knows how to take advantage of the find. It’s sort of a slow, little story with no great thrills or emotional highs and lows, just some kids having a summer adventure.

The Archaeolojesters by Andreas Oertel. Cody, Eric, and Eric’s twin sister, Rachel try to save their town’s economy by perpetrating a hoax to bring in visitors. The ending is a bit unbelievable, but the the book is supposed to be the first in a series. So either the kids will reap what they sowed in the next installment, or the series will segue into a fantastical adventure that requires lots of suspension of disbelief.

The Incorrigible Children of Ashton Place: The Mysterious Howling by Maryrose Wood is also the first in a series about three children who were raised by wolves. The story, which features governess Penelope Lumley, a fifteen year old graduate of the Swanburne Academy for Poor Bright Females, is rather cute and fun, but it ends practically in mid-sentence with most of its questions unanswered. The next book in the series, The Hidden Gallery, will be in stores Feb 22, 2011. You may want to wait for it and then sneak a peek at the ending to see if the words “to be continued” are again the (non)ending, if that sort of thing bothers you as it does me. These books look to be similar in tone and attitude to Lemony Snicket’s A Series of Unfortunate Events.

Mary Mae and the Gospel Truth by Sandra Dutton. This book attempts to reconcile a straw man version of creationism with the fossil record. Young earth creationists are presumed to be ignorant, abusive hillbillies with sort of good hearts but very, very little brain. Oh, and the “Christian” mother threatens Mary Mae with homeschooling her if Mary doesn’t forget about fossils and quit asking so many questions about the Bible. Then Mama slaps Mary Mae for being sassy. That was the last straw for me. Mary Mae’s mama believes that fossils are tricks that God put in the earth to test our faith. Blech. I’m not a believer in a young earth myself, but those who do hold that view deserve more respect than this piece of didactic stereotyping gives them.

Historical Fiction Picks for 2011

From this list of forthcoming historical fiction titles, I pick the following that I would very much like to read next year:

Dale Cramer, Paradise Valley, Bethany House (in 1921, a new Ohio law forces the Amish to attend public schools), January 2011. I’ve read several other novels by Mr. Cramer, and I think he’s quite a good writer. Here’s my review of Levi’s Will, another Amish-themed novel by Cramer.

J.J. Murphy, Murder Your Darlings, Signet (an Algonquin Round Table mystery featuring Dorothy Parker), January 2011. Although Dorothy parker would have been an uncomfortable person to know, she remains fascinating to look at from a distance. Her acerbic wit engages my own sense of humor, but again I’m glad to escape the exercise of that wit upon my foibles.

Jill Paton Walsh, The Attenbury Emeralds, Minotaur (new Dorothy Sayers-inspired mystery, which revisits Lord Peter Wimsey’s first case; set in 1951), January 2011. I’ve read at least one of Jill Paton Walsh’s Lord Peter Wimsey mysteries, the first called Thrones, Dominations, and I thought she did a good job of following in the footsteps of a master mystery writer, Dorothy Sayers.

Anne Perry, Treason at Lisson Grove, Ballantine (first Thomas and Charlotte Pitt mystery in three years; set in Victorian London), April 2011. I like Anne Perry’s Victorian mysteries, although the author’s personal story is rather bizarre, especially for a writer of murder mysteries.

Mary Doria Russell, Doc, Random House (chronicles of the lives of Doc Holliday and his girlfriend Kate in Dodge City, Kansas, during one memorable summer), May 2011. Ms. Russell’s The Sparrow was one of the very best books I read in 2009, so I’m willing to try out anything she writes, even a novel with a western setting.

Nicola Upson, Two for Sorrow, Harper Paperbacks (third installment of Josephine Tey mystery series), July 2011. I’ll only read this one if I can manage to find and read the first two in the series and if I like them. I’m quite fond of Josephine Tey’s novels, so I hope this fictional version of the author does her justice.

It’s Raining Cupcakes by Lisa Schroeder

Several of the Cybils books nominated in the Middle Grade Fiction category focus on entrepreneurship or family businesses. In Rocky Road by Rose Kent, already reviewed here, the Dobsons start an ice cream shop in Schenectady. In Crunch by Leslie Connor, also reviewed previously, three siblings run a thriving bicycle repair shop while their parents are stranded up north. Emma Freke’s mom in I, Emma Freke by Elizabeth Atkinson, leaves Emma to tend the bead shop while mom gallivants. In The Dancing Pancake by Ellen Spinelli, Bindi’s mom and aunt team up to open a restaurant called, what else, The Dancing Pancake.

And now I’ve just finished It’s Raining Cupcakes by Lisa Schroeder in which twelve year old Isabel’s family opens a cupcake shop. I don’t know who was channeling whom, but the experience of reading It’s Raining Cupcakes really reminded me of reading Rocky Road a couple of weeks ago:

Opening a food business. Check.
Twelve year old not totally on board. Check.
Mom with depression or borderline depression issues. Check.
Family pitches in to help. Check.
Neighbors and friends also pitch in. Check.
Competition threatens. Check.
Mompreneur despairs. Check.
Daughter saves the day. Check.
All’s well that ends well. The business is a success!

It’s Raining Cupcakes was a cute story, and the cupcake recipes included in the back of the book look like winners. However, I’m left to wonder what’s next? Beads, bicycles, ice cream, pancakes, cupcakes. . . Maybe a nice old-fashioned bookstore?

Other takes:
Brimful Curiosities: “I just finished a cute middle grade novel titled It’s Raining Cupcakes by Lisa Schroeder, a perfect girly diversion for a rainy summer day. From the scrumptious pink cupcake laden cover to a well-written plot with chapter titles named after different cupcakes, the book is a treat to read.”

Jama Rattigan’s Alphabet Soup: “Lisa used only the finest ingredients: a likeable, true-to-life main character, an appetizing premise, a cozy small town setting, and interesting secondary characters, all flavored with equal parts charm, humor, and suspense.”

Kim Bacciella at YA Books Central: “This is a sweet, fun tale of a young girl who wants nothing more than to travel outside her little town of Willow.”

It’s Raining Cupcakes has been nominated for the 2010 Cybils Awards in the Middle Grade Fiction category.

So, what’s your favorite cupcake or cupcake recipe?

Saturday Review of Books: November 13, 2010

“In anything fit to be called by the name of reading, the process itself should be absorbing and voluptuous; we should gloat over a book, be rapt clean out of ourselves, and rise from the perusal, our mind filled with the busiest, kaleidoscopic dance of images, incapable of sleep or of continuous thought. The words, if the book be eloquent, should run thenceforward in our ears like the noise of breakers, and the story, if it be a story, repeat itself in a thousand coloured pictures to the eye.”~R.L. Stevenson

Robert Louis Balfour Stevenson, poet, novelist, essayist and travel writer, was born on November 13, 1850. I’m rather fond of his verse and of The Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr Hyde, which I re-read a couple of years ago along with a freshman literature class I was teaching at the time. What do you know and enjoy of Stevenson’s work?

The Robert Louis Stevenson Website.

If you’re not familiar with and linking to and perusing the Saturday Review of Books here at Semicolon, you’re missing out. Here’s how it usually works. Find a review on your blog posted sometime during the previous week of a book you were reading or a book you’ve read. The review doesn’t have to be a formal sort of thing. You can just write your thoughts on a particular book, a few ideas inspired by reading the book, your evaluation, quotations, whatever.

Then on Saturday, you post a link here at Semicolon in Mr. Linky to the specific post where you’ve written your book review. Don’t link to your main blog page because this kind of link makes it hard to find the book review, especially when people drop in later after you’ve added new content to your blog. In parentheses after your name, add the title of the book you’re reviewing. This addition will help people to find the reviews they’re most interested in reading.

After linking to your own reviews, you can spend as long as you want reading the reviews of other bloggers for the week and adding to your wishlist of books to read. That’s how my own TBR list has become completely unmanageable and the reason I can’t join any reading challenges. I have my own personal challenge that never ends.

Two Mysteries, Two Theme Parks, Two Winners

Closed for the Season: A Mystery Story by Mary Downing Hahn.
Belly Up by Stuart Gibbs.

The mystery:
Who killed old Mrs. Donaldson?
Who murdered Henry Hippo?

The setting:
Magic Forest, Virginia’s defunct, kudzu-covered theme park.
FunJungle, America’s newest theme park/zoo located in the Texas Hill Country.

The detectives:
Logan Forbes, who just moved into the murdered woman’s house, and his sidekick, rude, bookish, misfit Arthur Jenkins, who lives next door.
Teddy Roosevelt Fitzroy, the son of a gorilla expert and a wildlife photographer, and his new friend, Samantha MacCracken, daughter of the millionaire owner of FunJungle, JJ MacCracken.

The suspects: Too many to count. In both books, I was kept guessing till the very end. Thrills and chills. Danger and creepiness. Recommended reading for mystery fans of all ages.

The authors:
Mary Dowling Hahn has been writing children’s books for over thirty years, and she’s published almost thirty books. Her books run the gamut from mysteries to ghost stories to historical fiction to fantasy. I know I’ve read her books before, but I don’t actually recognize any of the titles. Hahn’s 1991 book Stepping on the Cracks won the Scot O’Dell Award for Historical Fiction.
Stuart Gibbs has written screenplays, but Belly Up is his first published novel. He has another novel, The Last Musketeer, due out next fall.

I was quite absorbed by both of these mystery thrillers, but I would give the edge to Belly Up. I’m sure neither author expected anyone to compare the two books in the first place, but they do have a lot in common. Kudos to Stuart Gibbs for such a fast and funny debut novel, and the same to Ms. Hahn for the latest entry in a body of work that’s kept kids entertained for many years.

You can’t go wrong by picking up either of these, but if you have to choose which one to read first, check out Belly Up. After all, an exploding hippo trumps almost anything!

Other takes on Belly Up:
Jennifer at 5 Minutes for Books: “Animal lovers, and zoo or theme park afficianados will appreciate the insider info given about these industries. As a former Texan, I also enjoyed the accurate portrayal of that area.”

Debbie Winkler: “Because of the setting and the workers, I got to learn all kinds of things that I never knew about animals and thoroughly enjoyed myself. Due to Stuart Gibbs’ engaging writing style, I never felt like I was getting an info dump on animals that I didn’t care about.”

Mark Carstairs: ” It’s hard in a kids’ mystery to balance the need for the main character to investigate without making the adults seem like bad parents. That was handled here perfectly. And it changed as the book progressed, although keeping things realistic.”

Other takes on Closed for the Season:
Jen Robinson’s Book Page: “This combination of realistic interpersonal dynamics with atmospheric, suspenseful mystery is sure to please kids. Especially those kids who aren’t athletes, and have been known to spend an afternoon or two in the local library.”

ReadingJunky’s Reading Roost: “The murder, the possibility of the killer’s involvement in embezzlement, and the bulldozing of a local, historic amusement park all combine for some great adventure.”

Both Closed for the Season and Belly Up have been nominated for the 2010 Cybils Awards in the Middle Grade Fiction category.