The topic for today at Armchair BEA is nurturing relationships, relationships with publishers, publicists, other bloggers and readers. After reading a few other posts, I decided to tell you all the things I do wrong so that you can benefit from my bad example and so that you can see that a book blog can be “successful” even if you do everything wrong. Confession time:
1. I don’t comment on other people’s blogs enough, and I don’t respond to comments on my blog as often as I should. I do most of my blog reading in Google Reader, and I only click through to the post to comment when I REALLY have something to say. I enjoy reading lots of posts, but I don’t always have anything to add. The same goes for responding to comments here on my own blog. If you made a wonderful and enlightening comment, I may appreciate it very much. In fact, I appreciate the “great post” kind of comments. However, I don’t have much to say in response. I do think this lack of conversational skills on my part is a failing. I’ll work on it.
2. I don’t respond to email pitches for ARC’s that I’m not interested in reading. A polite “no, thank you” would be a much better practice, but I haven’t gotten in the habit yet.
3. I don’t read and review all of the unsolicited books I receive. I sometimes don’t even review the books I agreed to take under consideration for review. I try not to feel guilty about this. I don’t review books that I just didn’t like. I tell myself that authors and publishers would rather I didn’t write a negative review of a book that they sent me for free. But maybe they would rather get some mention instead of silence.
4. I forget to send the publicist or the publisher a link to my reviews. My organizational skills used to be a lot better. My memory used to be a lot better. Now half of the time I can’t remember where I got the book in the first place. So I read a lot and review almost everything I read (unless I hated it). I trust the authors, the readers, and the publicists to find the reviews if they’re interested. I know that it would be more neat and clean if I notified people about my reviews, but this blogging gig isn’t a paying job for me. So I do what I can.
5. I’ve lost my Kindle charger, so I can’t read the Net Galley review copies that I requested until I get a new charger. I wonder if that is making someone somewhere unhappy.
6. I sometimes go around leaving comments, flogging the Saturday Review of Books because I like having all sorts of book bloggers come to my place on Saturday and leave links to their reviews. If this meme-promotion annoys you, I apologize.
So, folks, don’t do as I do. Or do you think any of the above are acceptable habits for bloggers who want to nurture community but just run of of time, memory, and organizational abilities?
Happy Book Blogging to all, and don’t forget to leave a link to your book reviews at the Saturday Review of Books. I’ll (try to) catch you in the comments.